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Friday, January 30, 2009

Day 1: Making Room for Baby

Finally - finally! - we are starting on the nursery/guest bedroom this weekend. And not a moment too soon (clock is ticking 75 days and counting!). Today, my brother and dad helped HandyMan clear out the room and here's where we were at 11am.

I know, not much to look at.  It was a flurry of bookcases, bed linens, file cabinets, papers, shoes, clothes, rugs, dressers, baseboards, and dust bunnies (!) coming out of the room this morning.

By the end of the day, HandyMan had patched the hole in the floor (we had used some floorboards for the living room), patched the walls, and sprayfoamed some creepy crevices.  If HandyMan can finish off some "work" work he has to do, we may get to painting the walls tomorrow (and by we I mean HandyMan because baby + paint fumes don't mix ;) )


Thursday, January 29, 2009

Humanizing the Demons


when i was first introduced to the history of colonialism, it struck a well-spring of thoughts i had harbored but was never sure of how to ever articulate.

one thing i often wondered about was how did the colonials act the way they did. didn't they realise how they were acting?

of late though, i have started having a sneaking suspicion that when history is written, i may end up on the wrong side of it - intellectually speaking. i eventually came to the conclusion that it wouldn't really matter what side of history one resides at, as long as i can end my life trying to be true to myself.
so in an attempt to be true to one's self, i started thinking about the militants currently running rampage in our country, who are a bit hard to notice for most of us since the sand our heads are buried in stings if we open our eyes.

then, one of my favorite blogs did a piece on the taliban. i left a long, rambling and largely incoherent comment on my own take on the matter, which went as so:

i don't think that there is a difference between their religious goals and their political goals. its just how they understand islam,

i think one reason muslims countries and cultures were so taken aback by colonialism/modernism etc was that islam stopped being the basis of the whole universe, and became something that could be analysed and looked at separately.

and in the reality of the modern world, the ideas muslim had about the world were incompatible and unworkable, so religious thought continued to stagnate and fester, and modernity and science took the place of islam as the basis of the universe.

the taliban, who were themselves seemingly out of the midst of modernity, embarked on a campaign that aligned religious and political goals as one.

unfortunately, the taliban are very much a product of post-modernity/post-colonialism. and so, their ideas of islam are subservient to their political goals, which i think are to expand their culture of extreme patriarchy.

islam is just a banner. but before we make that comment, i think it is important to realize that just because they are wrong, it doesn't mean anyone else has the right idea about islam's place in the contemporary world. mainly because people try desperately hard to align islam to modern thought, or copy+paste islamic ideals from times long past.

the important thing for those who say "the taliban don't follow 'real' islam" is that there is no real islam. there is no orthodox islam, as even sunni beliefs are split within their own schools of thought. therefore, islam is only meant to be interpreted. as you can see with the taliban, their interpretations are through the prism of their patriarchal set of views.

the taliban can only be ideologically defeated if there is an islamic reawakening, which robs them off their stranglehold over islamic interpretation. while that may sound stupid, it staggers the mind that in the 30s iqbal was explaining interpreting existentialism through an islamic reasoning. now most muslims can't spell existentialism.

(finally, before the secular types get offended, i mean islam and muslim in the same sense as the term islamic art. that is to say islam in not just a religious sense, but cultural, hereditary sense. so my conceptualization is meant to include oxymorons like secular muslims.)


only minutes after that comment, i came across this video.



and its fascinating on two levels. firstly, when i saw it, and read slate's description of the photos showing the taliban in "effeminate" poses, i laughed, and thought to myself, "you goras just don't get it"

i mean, long hair, kohl-laden eyes and men holding hands, come on - that's been going on in this sexually stifled society for so long. and i had addressed the issue before as well, after a trip to peshawer.

but slowly, as the video progressed, something started to bite at me. which side of the divide was i on? the native who was able to see the limits and confusions of the foreigner's perceptions? or the foreigner, unable to understand and comprehend what i was seeing outside the sphere of my own perceptions, which were markedly different from the people in the pictures?

its a thought that sometimes gnaws at me. are we not demonising the militants? don't get me wrong, they perform monstrous acts. but they are human as well, aren't they?

you may retort, what sort of 'humans' chop off heads with wanton abandon, kill entire families for wardrobe malfunctions, skin people alive, bomb educational institutions etc etc...

but none of that removes us from the fact that they are human, and worse yet, our compatriots, our countrymen.

let's pause for a second.

a friend of mine wrote this great piece for The News today.

it echoed thoughts several of us had been having in the aftermath of gaza. and perhaps i have finally understood the answer to the question HYD is posing.

yes, we protest the gaza atrocities because it allows us to jump on the bandwagon. yes, we protest the gaza atrocities because more than anything else israel bashing unites us all. yes, we protest the gaza atrocities because it gives us a sense of purpose.

but here is why we don't protest swat. or fata.

its because we genuinely don't understand. for us, the militants are like the ebola virus, or aids, or the plague. one doesn't really get how to tackle something like that. we can't understand the militants as human - for us they are the stuff of nightmares, the azaab of Allah, ravenous beasts that only know how to kill.

some might trot out the excuse of "well if your family was killed by a drone strike then you would become like this as well."

whatta load of bullshit.

you do not unleash brutal violence on entire populations relentlessly just because you are just like bruce lee avenging his brother's/father's/lover's death at the hands of the villain at the beginning of the movie.

no.

there has to be something else that causes such grotesque brutality. that gives rise to such an unabashed lust for violence.

the answer is our society, our people, us - bereft of an identity, of an ideology, of coherent thought, we have hobbled together empty slogans to hide our need to obey our id.

and its not just the militants alone who are like this. just because their violence is more immediate, more graphic does not make it different from ours.

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Time For A Bath

And so we wait. Progress on the bathroom has stalled. The basketweave tile will take another three weeks to come it (its on the slow boat from Italy!), the glass guys just came in to measure and will be another two weeks to install, the door hasn't arrived yet, and my seamstress is away on vacation so the window curtain will have to wait. But I couldn't wait to use the bathroom so for the meantime, I've put up some film on the window temporarily for a bit of privacy. With the baby belly growing by leaps and bounds these days, I am looking forward to enjoying my first soak in the new tub!

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Picture This

With the light at the end of the tunnel now visible, I’ve started to think about the final touches for the bathroom. Like what art to put on the walls. I’ve always loved art in a bathroom. It can bring liveliness and warmth to a sometimes clinical space. Seeing as I love taking photographs but have very few displayed in our house (that’s what happens when most rooms are still in some state of ‘renovation’, lol), I thought I’d put a few in the bathroom. But what mood to convey?

Fresh and colourful?


A far-flung escape?


Architectural and graphic?


Or Textural and Moody?


Which do you like best? What art do you have in your bathrooms?

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Sneak Peek



A few pics of progress in the bathroom. We're still waiting on a few pieces - glass for the shower, the basketweave tile, and the frosted door. So this is all you're gonna get until the final reveal - hopefully in about two weeks!

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Me

Objects on screen are not as big as they appear ;) 91 days and counting...

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Talking Dollars and Sense

A few weeks ago, I was interviewed by a national newspaper (more details on that when the article comes out in February). The writer was looking at how the economy has impacted spending on renovations. Turns out HandyMan and I seem to be prudent and a bit of an anomaly. When we bought our house last July, we set aside a hefty renovation budget. We chose to make a smaller down payment and take on a bigger mortgage… in exchange, we’d be able to pay for most of our renovations in cash instead of taking out a loan to pay for them. We knew we’d be making changes right away and spending that cash in the short term so taking on a longer term loan + interest didn’t seem wise. Most other folks, it seems, take on loans or borrow against their equity to make renovations. With the slowing down of the market though, the question was whether a loan (interest rates are still relatively low) was still the financing source of choice for renovations?

I’m not sure what my neighbours are doing, but HandyMan and I will continue along our conservative track. By spending only what we have, and spending it slowly (we’re doing a room by room renovation), we’ve discovered a few benefits:

  • We are able to save and contribute to the budget at the same time as we spend it
  • We can earn some interest on what’s left in the budget
  • We are better able to prioritize what we want to spend our money on and don’t feel the pressure to “do everything at once”
  • We can take the time to find good deals

As the economy continues to worsen, there’s even more reason to keep to our plan. Losing our jobs is a small but growing concern so sticking to a cash budget minimizes our risk of not being able to pay down any outstanding debts. The housing market in Toronto has also slowed considerably… while houses in my neighbourhood still sell relatively quickly it is not the same as even six months ago with multiple bids and prices way above asking. One house on my street (exact same model) sold for 32% more than the price we paid 10 months earlier! I wonder if those folks are regretting their purchase now that prices have fallen back down to earth.

I’m guessing there are many others out there who have had to reconsider their renovation plans. Has the current economic situation affected you? Are you holding back on spending or not? Or do you consider your home a long-term investment and choose to spend now and reap rewards later?

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Let The Sun Shine In

Here's where we started:


And here's where we're at:


Grouting and fixtures to follow!

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Blog Party: Before & Afters

Rhoda over at Southern Hospitality is hosting a blog party. This one is all about your best Before & Afters of 2008, and if you know me, I love me a good Before & After! Here's my Top 4:

1. The Kitchen. First up is the biggest project we undertook in 2008. Yes, I know you're probably tired of looking at all the kitchen pictures, but indulge me one more time :) We took the galley kitchen from a drab and dreary 1950's space to a swanky and sparkly bistro look.

Before:


And After:

You can see more pics of the renovation here, here, and here.

2. The Dining Room. So technically, we started on this room in November 2007, but we didn't finish it off, curtains and all, until April 2008 so I'm going to count it ;) In this room, we broke out the new power tools and made the wainscotting as our first DIY project in the house. We got wallpaper and shutters installed to bring the room to life.

Before (with the previous owner's furnishings):


And After:


3. The Deck. This one is still a "work in progress". We built the banquettes this summer and got some cushions made. Hopefully, this summer we'll finish off the space by painting all the woodwork in white, adding railing details, a 'haint' blue ceiling, some drop pendant lights, and breezy gauzy curtains.


Before:



And After:




4. The Office. This room was Boring with a capital B! No architectural features, an off-center window to contend with, and no storage space. A trip to Ikea took care of that. Here's what we came up with.


Before:



And After:



To see the transformation of these rooms, and other spaces in our house, just click on the Label Cloud on the left. I'm off now to go check out all the other bloggers at the party. There is so much inspiration out there!!

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Add It To The List

Dear HandyMan,


When you're finished with the 132 items on your To Do list, can you build me one of these? Baby HandyLuster really wants it.


:o*



Monday, January 5, 2009

Proof of the Mumbai attacks - Obama did it

the title of this post is an attempt rooted in curiosity over the idea if a certain title, or tags of a post encourage greater volume of visitors.



time will tell i suppose.

i had great hopes for my first post of the new year. wanted to usher in something encapsulating the past crazy 12 months. unfortunately, that has not happened.

but what i did find was this article. it may not be news to you, or interesting even. but in my line of work, and the general obliviousness towards reality that has come to be a way of life in pakistan, i felt compelled to share this wonderful piece by a man who has rapidly replaced mohsin hamid as my favorite pakistani author. that has also been due to the fact that the reluctant fundamentalist was such a terrible terrible let down.

Sunday, January 4, 2009

Tired of Tile

Progress on the tiling of the bathroom is a little slow-going. Not for lack of effort, but its a big job for HandyMan to do alone. He has had to do all the tiling, cutting, and trim work around the window and door all by himself, without his trusty sidekick Wanderluster helping out. Add the fact that he has to do all the cutting in the garage in the dead of winter (measure tile, go down stairs, put shoes on, cut tile outside, take shoes off, go up stairs, install tile, repeat process 100 times!) - its a wonder he hasn't got frostbite yet :o\

But the room is looking awesome. We've a few minor issues with walls and floors not being level requiring us to rejig the layout pattern. Hopefully all the tiling will be done though this week and we can at least get the toilet back in. I can't tell you how happy that makes Mama and Baby HandyLuster :)